Prompted by a good class discussion in my gesture drawing class this Fall, I feel that I should put some of my thoughts about R-rated movies down on paper to avoid any misunderstandings about my own personal views on the subject.
First of all, the most important principle to understand when tackling this subject is the principle of agency. The Lord has not given us a black and white guidelines regarding every challenge that faces us in our lives. Even in the Word of Wisdom, the Lord does not go into detail about how much cake and cookies we can eat or how many days a week we can eat fast food. That would seem to revert us to the Law of Moses. Instead, the Lord gives us “basic” guidelines of health (with some clear cut does and don’ts) and he expects us to judge for ourselves and utilize our knowledge and potential search for knowledge to help us make our own minds up.
For behold, the Spirit of Christ is given to every man that he may know good from evil; wherefore, I show unto you the way to judge; for every thing which inviteth to do good, and to persuade to believe in Christ, is sent forth by the power and gift of Christ; wherefore ye may know with a perfect knowledge it is of God. (Moroni 7:16)
The same principle is applied with media and entertainment. We each have to use this precious gift of agency and discernment to understand what content in acceptable and what content is not. With that said, there are going to be a lot of varying opinions about the appropriateness of R-rated films. I have heard several arguments with varying degrees of opinions. What is important for each one of us is to determine right now, what that boundary is. Because whether you don’t watch rated R films or whether you watch all R-rated films, unless you have a set boundary that you personally will not cross, I guarantee, that your standards will eventually be washed away completely. This agency is clear with this council in the
For The Strength of Youth Handbook:
Do not attend, view, or participate in entertainment that is vulgar, immoral, violent, or pornographic in any way. Do not participate in entertainment that in any way presents immorality or violent behavior as acceptable.Depictions of violence often glamorize vicious behavior. They offend the Spirit and make you less able to respond to others in a sensitive, caring way. They contradict the Savior’s message of love for one another.Notice that there is no direct reference to the current rating system. There is no question that many PG and PG-13 films have suggestive and inappropriate content. Clearly, we are encouraged to use our agency. President Ezra Taft Benson draws the line more clearly:
We counsel you, young men, not to pollute your minds with such degrading matter, for the mind through which this filth passes is never the same afterwards. Don’t see R-rated movies or vulgar videos or participate in any entertainment that is immoral, suggestive, or pornographic. President Ezra Taft Benson,
To the Youth of the Noble Birthright. Ensign May 1986
Agency defined is not only the freedom to choose, but a choice accompanied with a knowledge of the consequences. In other words, playing the “ignorant” card will not work with BYU students.
Many of you asked me this question in the class because you want to know my opinion. I will share this with you, but you must understand that first principle of agency. I have chosen a course of action that works for me, and it is a personal decision between the Lord and me. This decision is in no way an argument for judgment against others.
As a young animator and filmmaker, I was surrounded by talented professionals who I wanted to be like. I worked tremendously hard to be in the position I was in at Warner Bros. and I wanted to continue to get better and better. As expected, the topic of conversation in the studio was frequently about the latest films. I loved to hear and contribute in these discussions. However, I found myself conflicted inside when a R-rated film was the topic of discussion. I wanted to watch and learn from every great film out there. I knew there was undoubtedly some good filmmaking to be learned, especially in selective R-rated films. After all, this field is my career. I argued with myself and to the Lord that I needed to learn from these films, and I wanted his approval about going to see them. However, I could not get the topic of faith out of my head. Who did I have faith in to learn even secular knowledge? Successful filmmakers in Hollywood, or maybe the Lord knows something about filmmaking he can teach me? Who do I have faith in that can teach me what I need to know? I resolved that I needed to set up a principle that I would honor for the rest of my life. A principle based on an “If, Then” statement, that I could take to the Lord and plead for his support. That principle became this: If I decide to not watch rated R films, then the Lord will bless me with the skills and knowledge that I would have gained had I watched the film.
Nearly 12 years has passed since I set up that principle and it still becomes a topic of discussion in my prayers. I cannot say I am perfect. I can count on one hand a few slips. And yes, it made me feel terrible inside. Grief follows self-denial. (More on that topic; read
The Bonds That Set Us Free, by Terry Warner)
Fortunately, there are other media outlets to see the films that I had missed in the theaters. I look to TV channels like TNT or USA, that professionally edit out R-rated material. However, I am not a supporter of third party editing companies (Clean flicks) that compromise the filmmaker’s art by “hacking” up their films without their consent or approval of the final edit.
As expected, this personal decision of mine has been ridiculed from time to time. Some call it naive, others just say I’m too conservative or I’m not a “real filmmaker”. Regardless, I am at peace.
So, has the Lord blessed me to be a better filmmaker? I have hope and I have faith that indeed he has. One day I will know for sure, but until then, I will continue to act on faith and on the peaceful assurance that this principle has brought me. I would recommend that each of you ponder and pray about this issue with the Lord. Let him know your career dreams, and ask his advice, and if you are inclined, determine your own principle that you will live by, act on it with faith, and see what the Lord blesses you with.
Ryan